Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Sunday, October 25, 2026
My youngest sister was married two years ago, and she and her husband chose this Gospel passage to be proclaimed at their wedding ceremony. And, within their wedding homily, I shared that the command to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind is often eclipsed by the second command, which is to love your neighbor as yourself. Jesus makes it really clear though: The first and most important command is to love God. Yet, through the years, I’ve heard people tell me that, since they love their neighbor as themselves, that’s all that really matters. And I think it’s another way of saying, “I’m a good person. I don't need to go to church.” But, we know, being nice to other people doesn't make prayer, Mass, and the rest of what Jesus taught unnecessary. And I was honored and so pleased that I could use my sister and her now husband as a beautiful example of what that looks like. Growing up, I noticed that, when my sisters dated boys, the boys usually did not go to Mass,...